Sunday, June 29, 2025

Real Outfit Roundup: What to Wear When It's 100 Degrees

Summer is so weird, y'all. Time passes so slowly when you don't have responsibilities, but before you know it, two weeks have passed and it's time to do another real outfit roundup. That's where I share the outfits I wore in real life, a little about what I did while I was wearing them, and links to shop the same or similar items.

The last two weeks have been pretty lazy. Our weather has been all over the place. One week, we had pop-up thunderstorms nearly every day, and the heat has been unbearable. We haven't actually done much since the last outfit dump. There was father's day and my father-in-law's birthday. We've gone back to the water park...and that's pretty much it.

This roundup has a mix of casual and semi-dressed-up looks with quite a few new pieces that I've added for the season. I've also got the third and final swimsuit I bought this year.

Here we go!

Sizing info: I'm 5'2" and weigh about 140 lbs. I usually wear size 6 or s/m in clothes and size 7 in shoes.

We are starting with what I wore on Father's Day. My husband was working the overnight shift this weekend, so we didn't have big elaborate plans obviously, but we did get up that morning and go out for breakfast.

This dress was one I bought back in April but hadn't worn yet. It's such a great print for summer. It is a cotton-polyester blend with no stretch. However, the back of the bodice is smocked so there's a bit of give there, though not much, and the straps are adjustable. It's got pockets, which is always a plus. The skirt is a-line and not lined but it's also not see through.

I decided to keep my shoes simple and wore my white sandals. They were fine and did not distract from the dress, but I didn't absolutely love them with it either. I think it's because they dressed the outfit down some. I think a more neutral sandal would have been a better choice.

I love this outfit. All I remember about this day is that we went to lunch with my in-laws and went to Lowe's to get something for my husband. I was probably overdressed, but this outfit felt so polished and put together.

This top was a case of me wanting to try this particular trend without spending a ton of money because I wasn't sure if it would work for my body, but I was pleasantly surprised. The top is a knitted material but it's not a sweater. It's very thin and breathable. I did order up and get the large because I did not want the buttons to pull, and I was worried that it would shrink. It is part of the SHEIN Frenchy collection, which has a lot of cute stuff in it. 

My shorts are just regular old linen shorts from Old Navy, and they were the perfect base for this top. They've got an elastic waist, functional back pockets, and a 3.5 inch inseam. I got the medium.

I took a chance on the sandals. I've been wanting a more polished, chic pair of black sandals to wear with more elevated outfits. These strappy t-bar ones definitely fit that bill. They're definitely thin, but the sole is pretty cushy. Once I got used to the strap between my toes, they were very comfortable for all day wear.

This was a day that we spent at home, but I think I went to the Dollar Store maybe. At any rate, I just wanted to be comfortable and cool so I pulled out this tank top and these shorts.

The tank is one that I got specifically for the summer to wear to the lake or beach. I will say that this is one that I was a bit disappointed with then it came in because it's not like the picture. I was expecting a more worn cotton look than this crazy bright teal with the in-your-face orange. The print is also one of those overlay things instead of being part of the actual fabric, so it's got kind of that crinkly feel to it. It's definitely not one I'll wear much, but it'll be good for camping.

My shorts cost less than $5 and were an impulse buy...and the quality reflects that. They're not great, but for just lounging around the house, they work. They're supposed to be linen, and they're absolutely not. I can't even link to the exact ones because they're not available anymore, but the ones I am linking to should be better quality than mine.
Dress (similar) | Vest (similar) | Shoes (similarsimilar) | Bag | Sunglasses | Necklace

I really don't remember what we did this day, but we must have at least gone to lunch since I put together a real outfit.

This is one of my favorite dresses. I always feel good about myself when I wear it. I've had it for awhile so it's long been out of stock. I've actually been wanting to wear this exact combination with the vest and just needed a reason. I love how the almost faded colors of both the dress and the vest create this almost washed-out neutral look.

My exact sandals are still available in a few sizes so I'm linking to them, but if your size 
T-shirt | Shorts (similar) | Sandals (similar)

This day I felt like wearing a bright outfit, and I think I succeeded. This was another day spent mostly at the house, but my parents did come to town so we went to eat dinner with them.

I've had this t-shirt for awhile, and I still love it. It's also still available and comes in quite a few other colors. My shorts are not available anymore, but I linked to a similar pair. I can't find anything in this specific lime green color.

This particular day we went to the bookstore and to get some Boba tea. It was hot, per usual, so I kept my outfit simple.

This red color remains my favorite of these ribbed maxis. It's still available in all but one size. In fact, this dress is still available in every color except the black. It's so flattering and comfortable. I will say that the material is pretty thick, which I like because it means it doesn't cling in weird places, but on really hot days it could be a problem. Still, I love these dresses.

The next day we went to the water park, so I used it as an opportunity to wear the third and final swimsuit I bought this year.

Of the three that I bought, this one is my least favorite, but it's the one I got the most compliments on. Go figure. It is very flattering, and I didn't have any issues with the bottoms wanting to bunch or roll. The top was not quite what I was expecting. It does have a band around the bottom that didn't want to stay flat; however, even when it wasn't laying flat, it looked like that was how it was meant to be.

This was another mostly stay-at-home day. I got dressed to take Alexis out to her grandparents for the weekend, and that evening I went to dinner with my husband. I had just gotten in an Amazon order, so I wanted to wear something new.

How cute are these shorts?! They are not linen; they're polyester and have kind of a seersucker texture to them. The material is really thin but surprisingly wasn't see-through. The waistband is elastic with a tie. The backs have flaps to imitate pockets, which look so cute, but there are only front pockets. I sized up to the large to make sure that the legs were loose. I probably could have worn the medium.

I paired them with this really cute (and apparently trendy) fish-print graphic tee. It's not oversized but it is fairly loose. I got it in a medium.

I put this look together for an impromptu date night this past weekend. We just went out to eat after my husband got off work, but we did go to a nicer restaurant, so I wanted to dress up a bit.

This top has been in my closet for a little bit now just waiting for the perfect opportunity to wear it. It is one of those trendy tie-front blouses, but unlike the vest-style one I shared in my last outfit roundup, this one is a full blouse so it's got much more coverage. I did end up layering it over a navy blue camisole, but that was mostly because I don't like the feel of the seersucker-like texture touching so much of my skin. I think it still works, though, and it makes it into something I can wear to work.

I paired it with my white linen pants. I'm not sure if the ones I'm linking to are the exact ones I have since I've had mine for at least a year, but they look like it. I kept my shoes neutral, and I actually added jewelry, which is something I don't do often.

And that's got us caught up. Stay cool this week, and enjoy your 4th!

Friday, June 27, 2025

June Favorites: 10 Things I Loved + Your Favorites Too!

How is it the end of June already? Didn't school just let out last week?

We haven't exactly been idle, but we've also not done much at all. We've been to our local water park, spent a day at the lake, gone to the movies, and eaten at many of our favorite locally-owned restaurants. I've cleaned out my closet, gotten caught up on laundry, and whittled down my TBR list. I also got a haircut. Oh, and I haven't set an alarm in about five weeks now (that might be my favorite part of summer tbh).

Summers are still weird for me, if I'm being honest. This is my third summer as a teacher off duty, and my mind and body still have not quite adapted to having so many consecutive weeks off. I mean, I did spend 15 years of my life without having summers off, so it's pretty understandable. I have no doubt that I will eventually adapt, but for now I still find myself with this inexplicable need to be productive. I'm channeling most of that into the blog if you couldn't tell.

Here are my favorite things from the month of June plus the ten most popular things I shared.

My Favorite Things

Espadrille Sandals - I'm still wearing these pretty much every day, so they still deserve a spot on the favorites list. They are without a doubt my most-worn sandals of the summer, and y'all have taken notice. These sandals are in the top 10 things y'all loved as well. Sadly, they're starting to sell out, but they are still available in a few sizes. If your size isn't available, check out these similar ones from Target or Kohl's.

Minimalist Black Flip Flops - I'll be the first to admit that I didn't expect to like these as much as I do. They're flip flops, and I usually hate flip flops, but these feel polished and are more comfortable than I expected. Y'all love them, too, apparently as they are also in the top 10 most popular things I shared this month.

Wild Fable Printed Linen Shorts - These are so freaking cute and comfortable. I did size up to a large because this brand tends to be cut a bit narrow for my hips and thighs. The shorts do have a draw-string waist so I was able to tighten them as much as I needed.

Sense and Second-Degree Murder by Tirzah Price - This is a great mystery retelling of Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility. You can read my full review at the bottom of this post. This is the second of Tirzah Price's Austen mysteries that I've read, and I think this one is better than Pride and Premeditation. I did just discover that there's a third one - Manslaughter Park - that I'll be reading ASAP.

When We Believed in Mermaids by Barbara O'Neal - This was my June book club pick, and it was such a bittersweet, perfect summer read. Because I don't have the full review published yet, I'll give you a brief synopsis. This is the story of two sisters who find their way back to each other after one fakes her death to escape the cycle of a truly heartbreaking life. It's got love, both familial and romantic, betrayal, and redemption...and the setting revolves around the beach. I'll have a full review for y'all within the next week or so.

Snow Cone Machine - This might be the smartest $20 I've spent this summer. Alexis loves it and uses it nearly every day. It's easy to use and clean and doesn't take up much room on the counter. Y'all have also been loving this one. It's in the top 10 most popular things I shared this month.

Hawaiian Tropic After Sun Lotion - I've been using this daily, even on my face, to try to counter the effects of our harsh summer weather so I don't look and feel like a dried-out alligator. I love the light scent; it reminds me of the beach without being super overwhelming. It also works wonders on sun-abused skin, taking away the sting and reducing redness quickly.

Hydrocolloid Bandages - It's not really a secret that I have bad skin allergies. My super sensitive skin doesn't like much, especially smoke of any kind. So when I had to walk through a cloud of it leaving a restaurant a couple weeks ago, I had a bad flare. These flares start out looking like acne but are incredibly painful and itchy and turn into sores. My bestie recommended trying these, which I didn't even know existed, and I saw results after just one night of use. These have earned a permanent spot in my medicine cabinet.

Camille Rose Guava Slip Whipped Souffle Styler - This is not quite a perfect replacement for my Aussie curl pudding that's been discontinued, but it's close, and it smells ah-mazing. I love guava.

Not Your Mother's Curl Refresh Foam - I know this has made the list before, but I've been using it a lot this summer. It's been especially helpful since I cut my hair back short.

Your Favorite Things

Stay Wild Vintage Graphic Tee - Man, you guys really like the light purple, huh? This tee far outpaced everything else I've shared this month. I don't personally own this one, but it is a decent substitute for my beloved Bluebird Floral Shop tee that is no longer available.

Flowy Shorts - It seems y'all like these pretty flowy shorts just as much as I do. The Amazon ones and Old Navy ones tied for the number two spot. The Old Navy ones have apparently gone viral, and the white floral ones are all but sold out. The Amazon ones come in several different color combos; I own three.

Espadrille Sandals - Y'all have good taste. See above for more details on these perfect-for-summer sandals.

Body Glide For Her Anti Chafe Balm - This was on my Amazon summer must-haves list, but you can find this at Walmart and Target as well.

Neutrogena Hydro Boost Water Gel Face Moisturizer - This was on my Walmart summer must-haves list. It really is such a great facial moisturizer.

His & Hers Water Shoes - My Athletic Works water shoes were also on my Walmart summer must-haves list, and they are seriously maybe the best $10 I've spent. We have season passes to our local water park, and these bad boys are saving my feet without looking dopey. They're also comfortable. I was a little surprised that my husband's Rugged Shark men's water shoes were also on the list. I shared them as a bonus to go along with my water shoes, but I guess I shouldn't be all that shocked. My husband loves his pair, and even my daughter has a pair of the kids ones.

Minimalist Black Flip Flops - I guess y'all like simple, trendy flip flops, too.

Snow Cone Machine - This one really is a no brainer. If you haven't gotten one yet, what are you waiting for?!

Levi Strauss Signature Vintage A-Line Shorts - Do y'all know how hard it is to find denim shorts that don't squeeze my thighs? These don't, and I really do like the higher waist. They're flattering, and they didn't break the bank. I almost included these in my favorites for the month, but looking back I realized that I've been wearing linen shorts more than anything else lately because they're ultimately cooler due to the thinner material.

Large Plastic Tote - This is another thing that was on my Walmart summer must-haves list. I haven't actually gotten myself one yet, but it's coming, y'all. My current beach/lake/water park tote is just not big enough. Unfortunately, the Mainstays one is no longer available to order online. However, some stores still have them in stock, and you can check the website for availability. Guess I better hurry and get one before they're all gone, huh?

Wednesday, June 25, 2025

8 Summer Sandals I'm Loving

Summer is well underway, and while I am glad for the break and time to recharge, it's definitely not my favorite season for fashion. It is just so hot where I live, y'all, and that makes getting dressed feel like such a chore to me. I mean, why should I waste a cute outfit on sweat? So most days you'll find me in shorts and a t-shirt and casual sandals of some kind.

On the days I do make more of an effort, which is rare in the heart of the oppressive heat wave known as a southern summer, I go for light and loose clothing and sandals that feel more put together than a pair of flip flops. As a rule, I don't love flip flops anyway, unless I'm at the beach or on the boat.

This summer I find myself a bit more on trend than I usually am regarding footwear. Though truth be told, I haven't actually updated my style so much as the current trends just happened to cycle back around to meet them. That said, there are some summer shoe trends that I will not be wearing. Namely boat shoes which just are not my style, jelly sandals which I don't find comfortable at all, and heeled flip flops which I just honestly do not like.

Instead, these are the sandals making up my summer rotation.

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Two-Strap Espadrilles Sandals - It took awhile to convince myself to buy these, but they've become my go-to shoe this summer. They go with everything - dresses, skirts, shorts - are comfortable for all day wear, and feel much more put together than a flip flop. Mine are from Old Navy and still available in some sizes.

White Sandals - These are my most-worn sandals from last summer, and they are still going strong this year. They're quite comfortable and work well for both casual and dressier outfits. Surprisingly, they are still available. Remember to size up half due to the tight straps. In more than a year of wearing them, mine have not loosened up at all.

Neutral Wedges - These are a dressier option for when you want to keep that neutral look but feel a bit fancier. These are definitely not an everyday shoe for me in the summer because they do feel fancy, but I do wear them quite regularly for school to feel more professional. Mine are old and no longer available, but there are lots of similar options out there.

Heeled Clog Sandals - These are another "dressier" option, though I still think these are pretty casual. They're definitely not my everyday sandal for sure; I don't tend to wear heels much in the summer unless I'm 'dressing up.' My exact ones are all but sold out unfortunately, but there are quite a few similar options out there.

Black T-bar Sandals - I almost passed these beauties by. The minimalist shoe trend is not my favorite, and I'm not fond of having anything between my toes, but I have been in the market for a pair of chic black sandals. Y'all, I'm really glad I added these to my last Old Navy order. They are so nice in person, even on my narrow, skinny, kind of flat feet. They have a super squishy footbed and that minimalist look that's so trendy right now.

Minimalist Black Flip Flops - I'm surprised at how much I like these flip flops. Like I said, the minimalist trend is not my favorite, but I also really really really don't like rubber flip flops at all. While these flops are not very sturdy - the footbed and the straps are both very thin - they are surprisingly comfortable. I've mostly been wearing them with swimsuits, but they're great to slip on when running quickie errands.

Strappy Slide Sandals - These are a good neutral flat sandal that's better than a flip flop. They're more structured, and all the straps make them look more put together. I would recommend sizing up half - I did not, and while they fit, there's no wiggle room at all.

White Double Buckle Footbed Sandals - These are a casual alternative to the white sandals above. I've had mine for several years now and have just about worn them out, but I still find myself sliding these on with what I consider comfy outfits.

Sunday, June 22, 2025

What I Read Spring 2025

It's time for another massive reading roundup. This one covers roughly three months of reading, or the spring season.

But before I get into the reviews, I want to do a quick check-in on how my 2025 reading lists are coming along. I am officially caught up on my One Woman Book Club reading, in that I'll be reading the June pick in June (I haven't actually started it yet, but soon). Here's an update on my seasonal lists:

  • Winter Reading List - 5 of 10 books read. I have started Love and Ruin, The Stroke of Winter, and The Vine Witch, but not gotten very far in any of them.
  • Spring Reading List - 2 of 10 books read. I know, I know. This one is pretty bad, but I have moved a few of these to the top of my queue.
  • Summer Reading List - 1 out of 15 read. Not bad since I just put this list together.

I started making these reading lists as a way to organize my massive TBR and give myself a starting point. My TBR can be a little overwhelming, but these focused lists have really helped me to trim it down. That said, I tend to read things based on how I'm feeling in the moment, which means it usually takes me a bit to read everything on my reading lists.

Spring was really busy for me and pretty stressful if I'm being honest. Lots of things took a back seat while I focused on getting through the last leg of the gifted certification course I was taking, plus we had all the end-of-the-year school activities going on. However, looking through my Kindle history, I realize that I read more than I thought I did. 
Author: Nadine Brandes

This was my book club pick for April and is hands down the best book I've read this year so far. It's a historical fiction book based on the Gunpowder Plot of 1605 featuring the most famous conspirator's son as the main character with a unique magical spin. I loved this book so much that I ended up going on a deep dive into the history of the actual event and conspirators. You can read my full review of the book here.
Author: Kristin Wright

This was my May book club pick, which I read at the very start of June. It is a mystery told in dual point of view between an attorney and her client. The attorney, Allison Barton, is trying to make a name for herself so that she can start her own practice. The client, Kira Grant, is the PTA president and has been accused of poisoning another parent at the fifth grade graduation celebration. This book wasn't bad, but  it didn't live up to my expectations either. It's got a great twist, though. Read my full review here.
Author: Gordon Korman

This is absolutely a middle grades level book, but I love Gordon Korman and occasionally like to read books that my students would enjoy. That said, this book was very relatable for me as a former gifted kid. This is the story of a boy who is not gifted but through a series of unfortunate events finds himself enrolled at a gifted academy where he finds a place on the robotics team. Not only is it a learning experience for him but also for the actual gifted students who need a lesson or two in how to be kids.
Whispers Within the Moonlit Garden (Desperate Disguise book 3)
Author: Tessa Cole

This was a good continuation of the series I started at the beginning of the year, but it's not finished and the next book isn't coming out until next year! I'm so mad at myself for starting it without checking to see if it was complete. I'm invested in the story now and need to know what happens! Here's a really brief summary of the series plot: When Sage gets a premonition of her brother's death, she disguises herself as a boy and takes his place at the Black Tower where she gets a lot of unwanted attention, especially from the tower's fae commanders. To make matters worse, she keeps appearing in the fae garden, a feat that should be impossible considering she's human.
Seance and Revenant (Spirit Realm duet)
Author: Stacey Brutger

I remember enjoying this duet but not specific plot points. Rue can see and communicate with the dead, just like her mother whose own gift caused her to go crazy and ultimately led to her death, leaving Rue with her abusive father. Rue manages to escape with the help of her estranged and eccentric grandmother, but she can't escape her past or her powers. Thankfully, the guys who live next door can help.
Talk to Me and Don't Let Go (Switchboard duet)
Author: Heather Long

I really liked this duet. It was a bit reminiscent of Mia Smantz's Cardinal series while being nothing like it at all. I know, that's confusing, but they have kind of the same vibes in my opinion. Anyway, Patch went off the grid five years ago when she discovered her government employer wasn't actually the good guy. Now, she's a switchboard operator for now-so-legal clients. It's a system that works...until it doesn't and her old life comes to call. When she misses her call time with three of her best clients, they join forces to find her and eliminate the threat.
Author: B.M. Clemton

I'm not usually into monsters, but this series was really interesting, and I loved the FMC. Meyer can see monsters and has spent her entire life hiding from and fighting them. When an injured hunter shows up on her isolated doorway, her life changes forever. Not only is Meyer meant to defend the realm from monsters, she's also the key to stopping an ancient evil from fully rising and destroying everything.
Author: Tate James

Tate James is one of my favorite authors, but I've been actively avoiding this series. It's not my usual trope, but I love her writing style and her character development is always on point. The Guild is a mercenary organization that Danny was raised to be part of as a honey trap (hence the name of the first book). Now someone wants her dead, and they'll do just about anything to see that it happens. But Danny isn't so easy to kill, and she's got some powerful players on her side.
Author: Elizabeth Dear

I loved this series, even though I usually stay away from this particular trope. Saint Gabriel City is ruled by four families: the Spencers, Hargraves, Ferreros, and Knights. Or it was until the Knights were murdered by the other three. Seven years later, the daughter they thought they'd killed comes back and will stop at nothing to bring it all down. I really enjoyed Jolie as the FMC, and her found family was so great. One of my favorite characters, Frankie, was not a main character, and I wish he'd had more page time. I think there might be a novella about him, though.
Author: Mia Smantz

This is a sequel series to her Cardinal series that I mentioned earlier in this post, so I reread that before reading this one (and you absolutely have to have read it to understand this one). The Cardinal series is one of my favorites, but I think this book was better, and I can't wait to see how these characters continue to grow and develop. Just to give you an idea of what everything is about...Callie was kidnapped when she was 11 because of her exceptional computer hacking skills. Eventually she's rescued by a top secret government agency and works with them to bring down the man she was forced to do unspeakable things for. While they are successful in bringing him down, there are still loose ends at the end of the series, namely a serial killer who is obsessed with Callie, and that's what this book focuses on.
The Scarlet Witch (The Coven: Vampire Magic book 3)
Author: Chandelle LaVaun

Ahhh! This book was an amazing continuation of this long-running favorite series of mine, and I cannot wait for book four of this part of the story to come out later this year. Surprisingly, I did not reread the entire saga before diving into this one, but I have a feeling that I'll start back at the beginning before the next season. Okay, so in a nutshell, Lilith is trying to rise and it's up to the Coven and their allies to defeat her and save the world. The seasons so far have been about gathering all the players they need to be successful. This particular season, which focuses on Frankie and her soulmate Everest, is a bit on the spicy side (the Coven is growing up, y'all), but you can request a more PG version.
Author: Emma St. Clair & Emma Proctor

This was a quick little rom-com that was totally predictable but fun nonetheless. Eloise and her sisters inherit their grandmother's beach house on Oakley Island. Per her will, at least one of them must live in the house while it is being renovated to become a bed and breakfast. As the youngest sister who's just graduated and has no current job prospects, Eloise is elected to stay and oversea the project. No one, least of all Eloise herself, expects her to fall in love with island life...or the grumpy lawyer living just next door. There are two more books in this series focusing on the other two sisters,  Merritt and Sadie.
Author: A.L. Rook

I have such mixed emotions about this series. On the one hand, I'm ready for it to be over because it feels like it's never-ending and overly drawn out (I really think that's just me being impatient, though). On the other hand, I love the story and the characters. The cliff-hanger in book four though! OMG. I need to know what happens ASAP. And there isn't even a placeholder for book 5 yet! Raegan has the power of destruction. She was taken as a child and raised on an island under the pretension of training to use her gift for the greater good. When she accidentally kills the sister of one of her best friends, she's abandoned by her friend group. Now she's on a mission to destroy the group that abused her and her once-upon-a-time friends are between her and her goal.
Veiled Spirits and Shadowed Spirits (Haunted Magic books 1-2)
Author: E.L. Finley

Another incomplete series. Why do I keep doing this to myself?! I like the storyline, but the FMC is a bit more emotional and self-sacrificing than I typically like. She's a bit infuriating to be honest. Her mates are what kept me reading...and then the introduction of some side characters that I was not expecting. Isabel has a forbidden type of magic that could result in not just her death but the death of anyone who knows about it. But the council who set that law is corrupt and have unleashed a veritable goddess of war that only Isabel has a hope of stopping.
Kingdom of Aramis duet (Kingdom series)
Author: Lexie Winston

I didn't know this duet was part of a bigger series...which hasn't been written yet. So while the duet is finished (kind of), the story itself is not. There are so many unanswered questions, and if the author continues with the duet format for the other kingdoms, there will be four more sets. This world is divided into four kingdoms: Aramis, Eryx, Shayla, and Tanith. Aramis, where this duet takes place, is the land of the shifters. To prevent fighting amongst the humans and supernaturals, the gods decreed that every 40 years a human would be selected king or queen and imbued with the magic they need to rule over their subjects. Colbie is the new shifter queen, a position she absolutely does not want but one for which she is perfect...because the gods have been plotting and nothing that's happening in any of the kingdoms has been left to chance.
Starlight Mates and Celestial Alphas (The Nexus series books 1-2)
Author: G. Bailey

It's been awhile since I've read anything new by this author, but she's been one of my favorites for awhile. I'm only two books in, and I haven't actually downloaded the third book yet, so I'm not sure if I'll finish this one anytime soon. It wasn't really what I was in the mood for at the moment, plus the series isn't finished yet so there's really no hurry. In an effort to protect them, Gwen rejected and has been actively hiding from her mates for years. But as is always the case with books like these, they find her and aren't letting her go anytime soon. There have been some vague allusions to Camelot but it's unclear how exactly that's going to play out.
Author: Tirzah Price

This is one of the books on my Summer Reading List. I fell in love with this author after reading Pride and Premeditation in 2022, which made my best books of the year list, so I had high hopes for this one...and Tirzah knocked it out of the park! I might actually have enjoyed this book more than the first. You might have guessed from the title, but this book is a retelling of Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility as a murder mystery. Now, I've not actually read the original version so I can't say how closely the stories match, but I'm not sure that it even matters because the story was just that good. When the Dashwood sisters' father dies unexpectedly, his estate is left to their half brother and his awful wife, who waste no time in pushing the sisters and their mother out of their family home but not before the sisters discover that their father's death was no accident.

Thursday, June 19, 2025

4th of July Outfit Inspiration

The 4th of July is just around the corner. How did this happen? It feels like summer only just started yesterday!

The 4th of July is one of my favorite holidays to celebrate with my family. Most years we spend it on the water, and of course there's always fireworks involved. This year things will probably look a little different. The campground where we normally go is closed for renovations this summer, so right now we don't actually have any plans.

Now, however, is the time to start planning your outfit. Mine will probably look the same as it has the past couple of years - an Old Navy flag tank (that I'm not seeing on their website this year, sorry), shorts, and flops. It's hot here, y'all; we're talkin' triple digits, and we're almost always outside for the entire day.

This year's inspiration is casual but versatile. Most pieces can be worn a variety of ways depending on what you'll be doing. I also tried to pick things that you can wear for things other than the holiday. I kept my browsing with Amazon, Old Navy, and Target. All pieces are under $50.

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Red Striped Top & Matching Shorts - Sets are really in right now. The ones that are a solid color aren't my favorite, but I do like this one with the striped sleeveless top and solid bottoms. It comes in a pretty navy blue option, too.

Short-Sleeve Striped Sweater - I love short-sleeved sweaters. They feel instantly elevated, which means this one would be perfect for anyone who has to work on the holiday.

Red Gingham Dress - I'm not sure gingham ever really goes out of style, but it's definitely having a moment right now, and this dress is absolutely darling.

Gingham Skirt - So is this blue gingham skirt. It also comes with a matching tube top.

Floral Dress - If you're looking for something a little more subtle, this floral dress is for you. The flowers are red, white, and blue.

Red Shorts - I love the retro vibe of these running shorts. They also come in a pretty bright blue.

USA Sweatshirt - This is absolutely not appropriate for where I live this time of year -- I'm sweating just looking at it! But I still love it.

White Linen Tie-Front Top - This is another subtler option that you can wear again and again.

Striped Tank - I actually really love this sleeveless top. It comes in a darker blue stripe with red trim, as well.

Cropped Flag Tank - This tank comes in a ton of patriotic prints. It's definitely not fancy, but I would absolutely wear this at the lake or river over a swimsuit.

Striped T-shirt - Old Navy has the best t-shirts, and this red, white, and blue striped one is a nice, casual, subtle way to show your patriotism.

Star Print T-shirt - Or you can go with a more pointed nod to the holiday with this star print.

Red Slides - These red slides would go with pretty much anything on this list.

Star Flip Flops - Or you can keep it simple with these cute star print flops.

Halter Dress - I really love this distressed flag print halter dress.

Reversible Tote Bag - Yes, I know this is technically not clothing, but it is the perfect accessory for the Fourth of July. The bag is a good size and really nice quality. It's reversible so you can choose red or navy blue. There's also a striped version as well.

Patriotic Earrings - Statement earrings are always a good way to add a patriotic touch to your outfit without going overboard. I really like the stars, but there are several options to choose from here.

Red Sneakers - I really like the retro vibe these sneakers give.

Patriotic Socks - Socks are another easy way to add holiday spirit without going overboard. Old Navy is my favorite place to find theme socks. I especially love their quarter crew socks.

Monday, June 16, 2025

One Woman Book Club Review: The Darkest Flower


Good news! I have finally gotten back on track with the 2025 One Woman Book Club. I was able to finish the May pick  the first week of June, but aside from jotting down my initial not-so-positive thoughts so I didn't forget them, I wanted to sit with it a bit to see if my opinion on what I had hoped to be an engaging and captivating detective story would shift in a more positive light.

Sadly, The Darkest Flower did not live up to my expectations, which may have been unfair considering this is the author's debut book and the fact that the author is a lawyer herself.

But you really shouldn't take my word for it. The book has more than 10,000 reviews on Amazon with a 4.3 average rating and a 4.1 rating on Goodreads. Me? I'd give it a solid 3, maybe a 3.5 for the twist I actually didn't see coming.

This is a shorter book at just over 300 pages. It only took me a couple of days to read. It is told in dual point of view between the two main characters: defense attorney Allison Barton and her client, Kira Grant.

To avoid spoilers, skip to the end of this post.

***Spoilers***

The book jumps right into the story. Kira Grant, president of her son's elementary school's PTA, has been accused of poisoning another parent at the fifth grade graduation celebration. The actual event is not part of the storyline at all; the book starts several days after it happens.

The book begins with Kira hiring Allison Barton, a young defense attorney looking to break out from under the shadow of her unethical and misogynistic boss. The first chapter is surprisingly short, but gives us a pretty good idea of the type of person Kira is - a good actress who's skilled at hiding her innermost thoughts and feelings. That's really the only purpose of the chapter - to establish Kira's character and the conflict of the story - who tried to murder Summer Peerman?

Chapter two introduces us to Allison with a very specific scene in which she drops a client who she's discovered is a lying scumbag. We also learn that she's dubious of Kira's innocence but sees this case as the stepping stone she needs to branch out on her own.

The gist of the crime is this: Kira handed a cup of poisoned smoothie to Summer Peerman at the fifth grade graduation celebration. The smoothie contained wolfsbane, a highly toxic plant that Kira has been growing in her prized garden for years. Another member of the PTA, with whom Summer has butted heads, made the smoothies, and one other member, who also butted heads with Summer, was helping to hand them out.

The bottom line for the majority of the book is that no one knows how the wolfsbane got into the smoothie, which of Summer's "enemies" had motive enough to try to kill her, or if Summer was even the intended target. All of this remains a mystery through the trial, despite Allison and the opposing attorney's best efforts to get to the bottom of the crime.

As the book goes on and Alison does her investigation, it becomes more and more clear that something is off with Kira, but Allison can't quite put her finger on what it is. She still does her job, though, to prove that the state doesn't have any actual evidence against her client. Once the final witness has been called and both sides rest their cases, Kira takes Allison out for a drink and finally tells her the truth.

Kira is innocent of poisoning Summer, but the real story might just be worse. You see, Kira is a helicopter parent of the worst kind, determined to do whatever it takes so that her children will be the greatest. When it becomes clear to her that her son is not the greatest, Kira decides she needs to take out who she believes is his competition - Summer's son and her son's best friend. She had planned to put wolfsbane into his smoothie at the celebration but changed her mind when she witnessed the boy standing up to one of her son's bullies, who she didn't even know about. But another mom who had issues with Summer caught her throwing the wolfsbane away, and that mom put the poison into the cup that Summer drank.

Once Allison knows the truth, she risks her career by secretly warning Summer to keep her family away from Kira. She changes her closing argument in a last-ditch effort to warn the opposing attorney, but the judge still returns a not guilty verdict.

Just when you think the villain of the story is about to get away with it, Kira's husband swoops in with his own form of justice. See, when Kira testified on her own behalf, something she said clued her husband in to the truth, and he cannot sit back and do nothing, allowing this woman who he now knows is a monster to have influence over their children. So not only does he serve her with divorce papers but he also takes full custody of the children.

And Allison gets her happy ending. With her win, she's able to start her own practice.

***End Spoilers***

Alright, so here are my final thoughts on this book.
 
I really didn't like Kira -- which was the author's point, I'm sure -- but I despised her. She was truly evil, but it was like she didn't know she was evil. That said, I felt like her character development was much deeper than Allison's, which was a bit disappointing.

I found myself getting frustrated with Allison throughout much of the book. She was clearly intelligent but also not. I felt like she missed details that should have been obvious and didn't ask important questions that also felt pretty obvious. Maybe that was speaking to her inexperience? I don't know, but it didn't build much confidence in her attorney skills. Then, she was brilliant in the actual courtroom, so she was a bit of a contradiction.

Some other things that bothered me about Allison -- She didn't stand up for herself to the sexist pig she was working for. There was almost too much self-doubt about motherhood, which, while I understood it's overall impact for her character, I felt it took away from the main plot and was a big distraction in the investigative process; her focus felt divided at the most inconvenient times (as a mother, I get that you don't always get to choose when your kid and parenting choices are at the forefront of your mind, but it felt like an odd choice for the storyline). There was also this almost-romance with the opposing attorney, Emmett, that felt distracting and really surface level, mostly because we just didn't have enough information about him.

I will be the first to admit that the twist was brilliant, and I didn't see it coming at first. There were definitely lots of clues throughout the book to support it, but it took me awhile to see Kira's true motivation.

Finally, I found the ending to be unsatisfying. Sure, Kira didn't get away scot-free, but there was no real sense of justice, and I just know that Kira is not the type of character who would just stop being evil because of what happened at the end.

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Sunday, June 15, 2025

Casual Summer Outfit Ideas

How has it been two weeks already? It's time for another edition of Real Outfit Roundup. Every two weeks, or thereabouts, I share the outfits I wore in real life along with a brief explanation of the look and links to shop exact or similar pieces.

Summer is well and truly underway, even though according to the calendar, we've still got another week before it's officially here. Tell that to Mother Nature. She's been giving us triple digit feels-like temps and afternoon showers for weeks now.

So far this summer, we've been to the lake and our local water park. We've eaten at several of our favorite local restaurants that we don't normally get to experience during the school year because they're only open for lunch during the week. We've made snow cones, had a Jaws movie marathon, and gone to the theater to see Lilo and Stitch.

I've got two weeks of outfits for you, including two swimsuits, the best water shoes I've ever worn, and my new favorite coverup. I've also got two outfit evolutions, which I hardly ever do because I usually don't have time to photograph every step of that process.

Let's dive in!

Sizing info: I'm 5'2" and weigh about 140 lbs. I usually wear size 6 or s/m in clothes and size 7 in shoes.

This coverup is so good, y'all. It's a good length, has great breathability, and is really soft. I wore this on our trip to the lake for the day. We even stopped at a store to get snacks on the way up, and I did not feel self-conscious going in dressed like this. I will say that when I first got this out of the bag it was shipped in, the smell was awful, but it was gone after one wash.

My flip flops are from Target, and I'm pleasantly surprised by the quality. I'm not the biggest fan of the minimalist flip flop trend, or flip flops in general, but I have to admit that these look pretty nice. They're certainly a step up from rubber flops. I'm not really used to wearing shoes that go between my toes, so that took a little bit to get used to, but once I grew accustomed to that again, they were pretty comfortable.

This swimsuit does not look like the picture on the product page at all. It's supposed to be green - hunter green bottoms and a sea green top - but as you can see in this picture, it's more like shades of turquoise. It's still pretty and very flattering on, but I just wanted to warn you that the colors might be true matches.

Anyway, the high-waisted bottoms are perfect. They are exactly the right rise for me, which is rare. The sides are adjustable with drawstring pulls, which means you can decide how much cheek you want to show or not show. I had no issues with these rolling or getting saggy, even when wet. I wish I'd gotten a picture of the back so you could see the strap details. It does have a tie back, but even if it comes untied you don't have to worry about flashing everyone.

The next day, we drove up to a neighboring town to eat at one of our favorite locally-owned restaurants. I wore a pretty dress that I've recently learned is a designer dupe, but although I took pictures this particular day, I didn't take one of my outfit. Go figure.
Swimsuit | Sunglasses (similar)

The day after, we activated our season passes to our local water park. It was such a fun day. We rented one of the pool-side cabanas so we would have shade, took a cooler full of gatorades and snacks, and stayed for most of the day. We did the wave pool and all but one of the slides.

Because I knew we'd be doing the slides and were planning to stay all day, I wanted to limit my sun exposure as much as possible, so I wore my new one piece. It is so flattering. I like that it's not super low cut or too cheeky. The back straps are so interesting, too. The bright, floral print is so much fun. I only had issues with it riding up on one of the slides...but honestly, that one went so fast I barely had time to blink before I was at the bottom, so I can't even be mad about it.

I would not have enjoyed the water park near as much if I hadn't had these water shoes. As a rule, I don't love water shoes. They just look so dorky! But not these ones. They have thick rubber soles and bungee laces and actually look like a sleek little tennis shoe. They were incredibly comfortable. Highly recommend!

I changed into this maxi dress after the water park. It's one of my favorites to throw on. It's so soft and comfortable, and I especially love the sunset colors. I've had it for awhile now, but it's still available in this and a bunch of other patterns.

I didn't wear this for a long time. I'm pretty sure I just threw it on to go grab supper somewhere, and I'm pretty sure we went to Walmart to get some after-sun lotion.

The next day was just a lazy day at home. After two days on the water and in the sun, we needed a rest day. That said, I did need to run to the Dollar Store to grab a few things, so I threw on shorts, a t-shirt, and flip flops.

To be quite honest, I usually don't put a lot of thought into shorts and t-shirt outfits. I was gone for 15 minutes tops, so I really saw no point in putting much effort into what I was wearing. Plus, it was really freaking hot out. Then, I remembered that I wanted a picture to document the outfit and realized that it was an opportunity to show how to "dress up" shorts and a t-shirt.

Upgrading a shorts and a t-shirt outfit really isn't all that difficult. The big changes I made to the outfit were tucking in my t-shirt to create clean lines, adding a belt to accentuate my waist, and swapping out my flip flops for more structured sandals. Easy peasy.

These are the first pair of denim shorts I've bought for myself in several years. I like that the current trend is for looser, more a-line styles, which means I'm more likely to be able to find shorts that the legs don't strangle my thighs. These ones are the Levi Strauss Signature vintage a-line shorts. I wear a size 6 in Levi's jeans but an 8 in shorts (I don't get it either), and the 8 fits perfectly.

Flash forward two days to Friday. We took my car to get an oil change and ate at one of our favorite local diners, then we decided to drive down to eat barbecue in a nearby town. We had a bit of a misadventure on our way back home with a flat tire. I actually took this picture while we were pulled over getting it changed. There wasn't much I could do to help, but we couldn't stay in the truck while it was jacked up.

Anyway, these flowy shorts are my newest obsession. I wrote all about my love for them here, so I won't wax poetic about them now. These ones are made of layered chiffon so that they look like a skirt but have all the ease and convenience of shorts...because they are shorts. Before you start thinking that means it's got to be a skort, think again. They are not a skirt with shorts underneath. They are simply shorts with multiple layers arranged in a way to mimic a skirt. So perfect.

Anyway, I've been waiting for the right opportunity to wear this new baby tee, and it was a really happy coincidence that it was a perfect match to the blue in the shorts' floral pattern. This tee is so dang soft and stretchy. I own it in four colors; that's how good it is. It's slightly cropped, which makes it perfect for high-waisted styles, which these shorts are.

I felt like I needed some definition to break things up, so I added this stretchy neutral straw belt. It was the perfect compliment. It came in a pack of four, so it was a good deal.
Dress (similar, similar) | Shirt | Sandals | Hairtie (similar)

I don't remember all the things we did this day outside of eating dinner at a street taco place. If you follow me on Instagram, you might remember the reel I posted.

Anyway, this dress is several years old. I think I got it at Cato, but I can't remember and cut the tag out long ago because it was irritating. I wear it on its own quite a bit, but I really like the nostalgia of layering it over a t-shirt.

This is the white version of the blue baby tee I shared earlier in this post. These really are perfect for layering. The bottom has a band around it to help keep it in place, so you don't have to worry about bunching or rolling.

These are the same white sandals I've been sharing since last summer. They're still available online in all sizes; just remember to size up half since the straps don't have any give in them and are pretty snug, even on my narrow feet.
Tank | Shorts | Sandals | Necklace (similar)

On Sunday, we ran a few errands around town, then hung out around the house. We grilled burgers and hot dogs for supper, and I think this is the day we started watching all the Jaws movies. Alexis, surprisingly, really got into them.

This is another pair of those flowy shorts. They're the same brand as the ones I shared earlier in the post. This is the "white leaf" print. They're a beautiful, bright navy blue. I was really feeling a loose outfit for the day, which is honestly unlike me, but even though I wanted a breezier look, I still wanted it feel structured and not sloppy. So I went with this cropped tank, which is the perfect length for the high waist of the shorts. The two hems flirted with each other without showing more than a sliver of skin. It's also not see-through, which is a huge plus, but it is thin enough to not be hot.
T-shirt (similar, similar) | Shorts | BeltSandals (similar) | Bag | Sunglasses

Skip ahead to Tuesday. Monday we just hung out at home, and while I did get dressed, I didn't take a picture of my outfit. Anyway, on Tuesday Alexis and I headed to the movies to watch the live-action Lilo and Stitch. The animated movie was a pretty big deal when I was in high school, and I was excited to see what Disney did with this version. We both enjoyed it.

This is my final pair of flowy shorts for this roundup, but you can absolutely expect to see them all again and again. This pair is the "purple yellow floral" print. I decided to go with my favorite outfit combination and pair them with a graphic tee.

Sadly, this exact one is no longer available. It's truly become a staple in my wardrobe the last couple of months...and it was a really good match for these shorts. In fact, when Alexis and I went to lunch after the movie, one of the workers randomly complimented my outfit, which made me feel really nice.

My bag was in my Amazon Summer Must Haves post last month. I don't regret buying it for myself, but I will warn you that it has absolutely no structure to it at all. As in, if you sit it on the floor, it ends up looking like a puddle of crochet around whatever it's holding for you.

When I came across these shorts in Target, I really couldn't resist them. They are such a fun summer print. The fruit-and-veggie motif is definitely on trend right now. As you can see, these are incredibly short...and I even sized up to a large -- I wanted to make sure I had plenty of leg room. They do have a drawstring waist, so they were not in danger of falling off.

I wasn't sure how I wanted to style these, so I played around with my options. I landed on this Just Peachy shirt that I've had for awhile. It felt a bit unexpected since it's not an exact color match but also appropriate because of the theme of the shorts. I fully tucked it because that's what we're doing these days.

I wasn't sure about which shoes I wanted, but then I remembered that I had finally caved and bought these red Mary Jane flats that I'd been waiting to go on sale (fyi, they never did). They are a woven pattern like my beloved brown ones but with a clear inner layer that keeps dirt out, which is brilliant. Just an FYI, these are the same style as the white eyelet ones that y'all have been loving for awhile now and that are still available in most sizes.

I actually really love the way these look with this outfit...but I also knew we were going to be out and about for a bit and didn't want to break them in that way. 

So I swapped them out for my tried-and-true espadrille sandals. I waffled back and forth on buying these so hard, y'all, but I'm really glad I decided to give them a shot. They have filled a hole in my summer shoes that I didn't realize was there.

Sadly, they're starting to sell out, which isn't all that surprising. They really are that comfortable and go with pretty much everything. They also come in a reddish brown color, which is currently on sale and available in most sizes.

The last thing I did was throw a headband in my hair because it was having a moment and needed something to halfway tame it.

One of the trends that I've been seeing everywhere are these tie-front tops, and well, I just haven't jumped on board. But then I saw this cute matching set, that I'm obviously not wearing as a set here, and decided it was a good way to give the trend a shot without spending a ton of money. I'm not big into matching sets, and it was too hot for pants anyway, so I decided to pair it with my new Levi shorts.

First of all, the quality of the vest (and the matching pants) is just meh. The material isn't very thick so it's not super structured. I did try the top on its own without anything underneath it, and I just was not comfortable; it was so loose and there was so little material, I was worried I'd be unintentionally showing things I don't want people to see!

So I decided to get creative. I tried a few different solid-colored tops underneath the vest without much success and had almost decided to ditch it altogether when I decided to try a more neutral approach. This is another of those baby tees, this time in a pale green that's almost khaki. It was a nice complement for the other colors in the vest without taking away from the pretty floral pattern.

I really wanted a belt but the ties on the vest were too long for that to work without being really awkward so I sucked it up and went without. I finished the look with my espadrilles to keep the neutral vibe going.

As much as I like the outfit, I felt a bit self-conscious when we were out and about. I felt overdressed, which is ridiculous since I was wearing denim shorts, but it was just one of those days where I was uncomfortable in my skin. It happens sometimes. I actually ended up losing the vest and changing my sandals for my Adidas sneakers to go grab dinner because it was raining.
T-shirt | Shorts (similar) | Sandals (similar) | Bag | Sunglasses

Which brings us to Friday. It was a pretty low-key day, and I wanted to be comfortable. We went out to grab some lunch and did some stuff around the house; I didn't even put on makeup.

This t-shirt is really soft. It says the color is "army green" but it feels brighter than that me, like more of an emerald. I decided to go with a monochrome look and pulled out my green striped linen shorts from last summer. They were an impulse buy that I have not regretted once.

I finished the look out with my almost-worn-out knock-off Birks that I got on a whim at Walmart several years ago. I never anticipated how much I would wear these things. I'm going to need a new pair soon actually.